Comments on: Ask Joan: Aged Out of Sex? https://seniorplanet.org/articles-joan-aging-change-us/ Aging With Attitude Tue, 10 Dec 2024 21:41:01 +0000 hourly 1 By: Ed Berwick https://seniorplanet.org/articles-joan-aging-change-us/#comment-541401 Tue, 10 Dec 2024 21:41:01 +0000 https://seniorplanet.org/?p=180805#comment-541401 my girlfriend/ wife and I began taking x rated photos, etc in the mid 1970s.

when we would wait a week for them from Photo Drive Up – while they circulated the prints to all of their friends.

the photos are in our phones, computers, and drawers

do we want our kids and our kids’s kids and their kids to see these / save them

be surprised?

etc etc etc

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By: Joan L Price https://seniorplanet.org/articles-joan-aging-change-us/#comment-539882 Wed, 04 Dec 2024 22:31:08 +0000 https://seniorplanet.org/?p=180805#comment-539882 In reply to Barb75.

Thank you so much for the shout-out, Barb75! More about Naked at Our Age: https://joanprice.com/books/naked-at-our-age

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By: Joan Price https://seniorplanet.org/articles-joan-aging-change-us/#comment-539881 Wed, 04 Dec 2024 22:29:29 +0000 https://seniorplanet.org/?p=180805#comment-539881 In reply to Lorraine.

Lorraine, read the “YOUR TURN” section at the end of my column for how to submit a question. I look forward to hearing from you.

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By: shortchanged https://seniorplanet.org/articles-joan-aging-change-us/#comment-539396 Tue, 03 Dec 2024 03:22:46 +0000 https://seniorplanet.org/?p=180805#comment-539396 The Aging Rewind interview was excellent. Similar to what I’ve thought: agree on a companionship, though where to find a “Friend with Benefits” would be my question. My ex shut off sex after children. We spent decades going from weeks to months to years (2, twice) in-between sex, we even stopped having sex on vacations, and when she did agree, it was as if she was doing me a favor. While I told her that it took longer for me to & what would help, her idea was just lay there.

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By: Lorraine https://seniorplanet.org/articles-joan-aging-change-us/#comment-536950 Sun, 24 Nov 2024 10:04:25 +0000 https://seniorplanet.org/?p=180805#comment-536950 Where can i ask a question, i hope here,
My hubbie is 83,, has been ill for a while and seems to be low on libido,, i was low on testosterone so a gynae prescribed some and was able to reach an orgasm by hubbie stroking me,, now I don’t know if i should continue the cream as he seems cold in that way
We cuddle and kiss but there’s no sex of any sort
When we did he did cum through oral sex in spite of e d
We tried the blue pill but did do much
Any advise please,, should I ask him,,,, how can pl

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By: Barb75 https://seniorplanet.org/articles-joan-aging-change-us/#comment-536832 Sat, 23 Nov 2024 16:51:50 +0000 https://seniorplanet.org/?p=180805#comment-536832 Have you each read “Naked at our Age”? Game changer!

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By: Dave 86 https://seniorplanet.org/articles-joan-aging-change-us/#comment-535987 Wed, 20 Nov 2024 12:36:05 +0000 https://seniorplanet.org/?p=180805#comment-535987 spelling: make love……..not maker

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By: Dave 86 https://seniorplanet.org/articles-joan-aging-change-us/#comment-535986 Wed, 20 Nov 2024 12:33:23 +0000 https://seniorplanet.org/?p=180805#comment-535986 Both of us, in our mid 80s , have back problems which preclude the ‘ conventional ‘ psitions for PIV. What works for us know is that my gal lies on her back and holds her legs back to her chest and I position myself 90* to her like an inverted T. Lots of lube and lots of talk gives us lots of pleasure. I also may lose some rigidity but that position is still conducive to PIV.
Ask why PIV is not her wish anymore. What has changed for her and maybe just delight in the other ways you maker love.

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By: LoveHerGrey https://seniorplanet.org/articles-joan-aging-change-us/#comment-535939 Wed, 20 Nov 2024 03:58:14 +0000 https://seniorplanet.org/?p=180805#comment-535939 Just in response to topic “Aged Out of Sex?” I’m +79 & wife +75. Both married only once. 54 years. We’ve had struggles but always tried to keep a “Date Night” each week. My wife’s health crashed I got older too. There’s a new normal. So being open to new options. Like with toys. For her, there is a small rose shaped clitoral suction toy that is amazing and fun. For him there are prostrate toys that can give an “OMG Orgasm !!!! “ Even without an erection. It’s possible but overcome taboos,

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By: Ann https://seniorplanet.org/articles-joan-aging-change-us/#comment-535936 Wed, 20 Nov 2024 03:01:04 +0000 https://seniorplanet.org/?p=180805#comment-535936 Communication is a key ingredient in any relationship, I myself am guilty of not communicating my wants and needs to my partner, but this article has open my eyes , I am 65 and still want and desire a physical relationship, even if my partner cannot preform, all the time

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